Ever wake up one morning and think to yourself:
“Jeepers self, if only I could give myself permission to really build up a business for 2021… even if I am scared bleepless!”
If so you’re definitely not alone – sometimes we are our own worst enemies…
… and we self-sabotage in ways we’re not even aware of.
Thing is… one way to Make Things Happen Well is to believe in yourself. And to truly give yourself that edge… loving yourself truly is a fantastic cornerstone upon which to build your future!
That’s why you’ll love the following (and be sure to return back once you’re done so you can benefit from the goodies I uncovered for you):
www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/discover-how-love-yourself-like-you-mean-these-10-steps.html
There, you’ll discover goodies like:
“…How do you love yourself?
To love yourself is to experience freedom – freedom from doubt, self-hate, and oppression created by you.
To love yourself is to no longer hold yourself back from what you deserve.
To love yourself is to grow and enjoy your life.
Self-love is a necessity if you want to live a truly happy life. Self-love is a choice, a commitment to yourself that you are going to love yourself, despite all the social and biological obstacles in your path. It is not found in a place, person or item….”
and
“…Self-love is a choice; it isn’t handed to you. It is not found in someone else or an object.
You achieve self-love by deciding that you want it. After a lifetime of hating yourself for not being enough, you have to choose to let go of this toxic mindset. Choose to say no to all the internal self-hate, and choose to tell yourself the truth that you are not perfect and that is okay.
To start this, give yourself permission to love yourself. You are worthy of being loved, even if you tell yourself you’re not. Take a moment to tell yourself this and permit yourself to love yourself.
This is the first step in accepting that you can love yourself and that you are choosing it….”
and more!
Mastering self-confidence is a topic that could make for a grand challenge, cheatsheet, tutorial and more. You could structure it like so:
Step 1.) Realize the only person you’re in competition with is yourself
Need help with that? Consider:
www.verywellmind.com/how-to-boost-your-self-confidence-4163098
tinybuddha.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/
Next, move to:
Step 2.) Familiarize yourself with ways to build self-confidence
Need resources for that? Consider:
www.mindtools.com/selfconf.html
www.forbes.com/sites/carolinecastrillon/2020/01/26/5-strategies-to-build-unshakable-self-confidence/
www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/63-ways-to-build-self-confidence.html
Finally, move to:
Step 3.) Decide the goal you want to achieve… and give yourself permission to make it happen
Need resources for that? Consider:
www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/8-simple-and-effective-ways-reach-your-ultimate-goals.html
shedreamsallday.com/how-to-achieve-your-goals/
healthyhappyimpactful.com/steps-achieve-goals/
Good stuff!
Your takeaway?
The past over and unchangeable – it’s set in stone. However, the future is always unwritten! You can *choose* to craft it as you see fit…
Why not take advantage of that today?
Enjoy!
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You’ll love what you learn… Promise!