Ever wake up one morning and think to yourself:
“Yessirree…. what has been happenin gnow for the past month really has hosed my toenails past the ingrown stage… how on earth do I figuratively clip ’em off?”
And it could have been a lot to make you grow those ingrown toenails without you even realizing it!
You could find yourself suddenly without a job (or perhaps you’ve now been out of a job for 6 months due to lockdown)…
You could have received medical news that destroyed you…
You could be battling family members…
Lots of things!
What do you do then?
So glad you asked.
When the figurative ingrown toenails start to impact your life, ask yourself.
Who can I depend upon?
Answer:
YOU! (well, *you* the reader).
Yes, its nice to have people to look out for you and take care of you and all that.
But honestly….
It’s *you* who has to step up to the plate.
So *how* do you restart?
Well, that’s a topic on which you could base a challenge, cheatsheet, tutorial and more!
You could structure it like so:
Step 1.) Give yourself permission to mourn it all.
Need help with that? Check out:
www.verywellhealth.com/letting-go-of-grief-1132548
www.psychologytools.com/self-help/grief-loss-and-bereavement/
tinybuddha.com/blog/navigating-loss-dealing-with-the-pain/
Next:
Step 2.) Be good to yourself first and foremost
Need help with that? Check out:
www.lifehack.org/330250/50-small-things-you-can-every-day-really-love-yourself
www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/16-things-you-should-tell-yourself-lead-positive-life.html
becomingunbusy.com/make-yourself-happier/
And then…
Step 3.) Give yourself permission to move on.
Need help with that? Check out:
www.powerofpositivity.com/grieving-how-to-be-happy-again-after-a-devastating-loss/
tinybuddha.com/blog/10-steps-to-find-yourself-again-after-loss/
Good stuff!
Your takeaway?
If you wake up above ground, you’re already one step ahead of the game.
You cannot control how others act… but you can choose to control how you “react”.
Instead, use the emotions generated from it all to propel your business into 2021 with style and grace.
You can do this!
Enjoy.
