You own how you choose to be.

Annoying that is to realize as well!

I know sometimes its all the rage to say,  “I cannot control my feelings, woe is me.”

Depression can be real.

Heartache can be real.

Thing is, the world simply DOES NOT CARE how you “feel”.

It cares how you perform.

Bills will not miraculously pay themselves.

Kids will not turn out to be financially self-sufficient adults unless they have a role model to follow (in the vast majority of cases).

And that means…

*You* have to be your own shining light during the times of darkness.

Now, that doesn’t mean you can manufacture good feelings!

But if you’re constantly depressed…. *seek help*.

Acknowledge you’re human… and move to the next step which is:

Make things better.

Nobody will do it for you…. but should you choose to change….

You will do it for *yourself*.

More soon,

Barb Ling