☕ Your Saturday Morning Perkup: 1818, 12th gift, Happy Chanukah, Happy Xmas Eve, PLR, Big Ticket, Huge Packed, more!

Before we dive into today, let’s get a quick recap!

=== Start Ongoing Goodies! ===

5K worth of Big Ticket Training for 93% off

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Today in 1818: First rendition of Silent Night in Austria

Plus My Own:

Make Holidays Great Even If You Have A Toxic Family!
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and

Dennis Becker’s end of the year Blowout!
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Todays Zero Cost goodie:

Someone gave ME a Golden Coffeecup!
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Good stuff!

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Where was I? Ah yes, Saturday!

Happy First Day of Chanukah to all who celebrate!

And!

Merry Christmas Eve to all who celebrate!

Yesterday I ventured into the stores and such – it wasn’t as insane as I would have considered.

So yay there.

And ideally today will be a nice useful gym day, spending time with the family, that sorta stuff.

2017 is coming around you know….

Ready for it?

Plus….

You know something, not everyone is looking forward to the holidays.

And if you’re not one of them, much empathy for having to deal with it all.

Please just remember:

One, you’ll get through it.

Two, if you’re going thru tough times now….

… remember that no matter WHAT (I’m really serious here), you ARE a bright shining light to folks around you… even if they never bother to tell you (lots of people never will).

To wit:

“=-=-= If you’re spending the holidays alone =-=-=

If you’re spending the holidays alone, chances are you’re probably not looking forward to it whatsoever.

But that doesn’t mean you have to be miserable the entire time (unless you give yourself permission for a pity party. That’s a great way to get out negative emotions and I’ve done them myself – pick up your fav foods or activities and imagine you’re taking every single one of your miserable sad thoughts, packing them into a suitcase, and then when you’re done, chucking said suitcase into the face of whomever makes you sad, and then skipping merrily off into the sunset laughing hysterically. Try it, it works).

So, if you have to face this weekend alone, consider doing the following.

1.) Lift the spirit of others. Post happy memes for your friends – when you make others happy, it has a habit of creeping up on you as well.

2.) Visit hospitals, shelters, etc. and give random gifts to the people there. Dollar stores have great deals (heck, most store this day do) and you can either wrap them or just give them in a brown paper bag. It’s not the presentation that matters, it’s the spirit behind it.

3.) If you have a pet, lavish extra treats and watch movies with him/her.

4.) Buy yourself something you’ve always wanted but never gave yourself permission to own.

5.) Write a letter to yourself. Spill out all the reasons why you’re alone this week, what led up to it, why it’s so unfair, and how you want 2017 to be.

In other words….

… Treat yourself like the magnificent person you are. You do NOT *need* others to exist….

… you are perfectly magnificent as you are. Give yourself permission to *validate you*.

Let go of all the negatives that have happened this year and last year and the year before that…. all the way up to several decades/centuries if required….

… and honor *yourself*.

You deserve it today and always.”…

I wrote more ideas about how to cope over at

askbling.com/btl122416

Enjoy!

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Grab it at:

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How ’bout you… what’s new in your neck of the woods? I’d love to hear…

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a morning GEMALERT from me – could be PLR!

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And here we go!

Today’s goodness includes the following!

Big Ticket 2.0!

Fresh Brain PLR!

Dennis Becker End of the Year Blowout!

and 2 more… can you guess?

And let’s begin!

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Nifty!

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HUGE HUGE HUGE

See the entire list here!

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Sweet!

What’s that? You want a special for FB Live?

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Holiday FB Live!

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Jeepers!

What’s that? You want fresh Brain PLR?

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Fresh BRAIN PLR!

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Coffee!

And finally:

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Wheeeeee!

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Don’t forget yesterdays:

Where was I? Ah yes, Friday!

Woke up this morning to my server being down. 🙁 Hence the delay in all me emails. Waaahhhhhhhh……

1 more day until Chanukah… and 2 more days until Christmas!

If you celebrate anything, I hope all preparations are going *grand* for you.

Here in Lingland, ’twas a nice quiet day…. today is a half day at school.

Wow that’s amazingly profound. 🙂

Didn’t get to the gym (wah) but DID do 30 minutes of isometrics in bed today (yay!).

And! Today’s Day 11 in the 12 Days of BarbLing goodness – how ’bout how I managed to earn 3K during the week I was in the hospital, getting my ankle fused, in 2012?

Grab it at:

askbling.com/12day1101

No optins, no email submittal… just click, save to your desktop and enjoy!

How ’bout you… what’s new in your neck of the woods? I’d love to hear…

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a morning GEMALERT from me – could be purple frosted coffeecups, but somehow I doubt that!

(note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
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And here we go!

Today’s goodness includes the following!

Outsourcing Simplified!

Hot Video Game PLR!

22 Toys Reviews

and 2 more… can you guess?

And let’s begin!

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Nifty!

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Jeepers!

What’s that? You want Good Housekeeping Toy Reviews?

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See how toys are huge business here!

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Coffee!

And finally:

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PLR THUD!

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Wheeeeee!

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Don’t forget yesterdays:

Where was I? Ah yes, Thursday!

My flapping earlobes, what a day. First the latest question

Yesterday I followed up with

“What do you think parents owe their kids?”

1/3 the responses on that… go figure.

Here’s my response:

” Here’s what I as a parent owe my kids.

1.) Love. They never need to wonder, gee, do my folks love me? I’ve already told them that until they find their soulmate, nobody will love them as unquestioningly as their mom and dad. This leads to security. Another thing that adds to that security is:

2.) Belief. They know that I believe in them 140%. No matter what challenges they might go thru, they know their parents *believe* in them. And if they don’t achieve their goals, so long as they can say they did their very best… they’ll never have to wonder if their parents’ faith faltered.

It never does.

Along with the prior two thingees of security, I also ensure all my kids have:

3.) Boundaries. My kids know what lines they can cross, and what they *cannot*. They know I’m not their friend, I’m far superior to that… I’m their *parent*. *Everything* I do in relation to raising them is to ensure they grow up to become the very best person they can be, and if that means they’re going to hate me for forcing boundaries on them… bring it on. I couldn’t care less if they hate me if I feel I’m doing the best for them.

Additionally, I owe my kids a:

4.) Moral compass. It’s up to me to give them the basis of what’s wrong and what’s right. Sure, they can choose to modify that as they grow older, but the foundations – that’s my responsibility. I need to teach them that YES it’s okay for people to be different, YES it’s okay to be gay/straight/bi/whatHaveYou, YES it’s okay to be Muslim/Christian/Jewish/etc. (but Jedi is really the very best thing to be, just sayin’).

Plus, its my responsibility to ensure they:

5.) Refuse to give other people power over them. I’ve tried to raise them to realize its so self-defeating to say, Someone made me feel xyz… because that gives control over them to unworthy peoples. I’m about halfway successful there, btw…. apparently it’s a very difficult thing to internalize. Drives them bonkers when I tell them they own their own reactions no matter what.

That about covers it as a starter. Im sure more ideas will emerge as my kids continue to mature.”

You can see the entire convo at

askbling.com/kidsowe1

And what happened yesterday?

Well, ankle fell off.

Not really, mind you – it was the weirdest thing. It felt like the left part of my foot was pushing against the right part of my knee.

I know, impossible. 🙁

But the husband and I did have a Burger King date!

See, to me, *that’s* the Internet Lifestyle – you choose to live life as YOU want. In other words, we’re content anywhere so long as we have each other …. the income earned, goes to the kids’ college and retirement.

Oh, and don’t forget the obligatory Feet by the Beach Internet Marketing Lifestyle!

Notice my left foot.

Looks normal kinda sorta, right?

If you want to see what it looked like BEFORE, check out my Fused Ankle album at

askbling.com/fusedankle

Warning – some of the recovery photos are quite graphic.

But they sure did a heck of a job fixing what they could (side note – in 2012, my ankle literally collapsed).

Elsewhere in Lingland, ’tis quiet…. looking forward to the holidays!

And! Today’s Day 10 in the 12 Days of BarbLing goodness – how ’bout 500+ Holiday niches complete with coupons and discounts?

askbling.com/12day101

No optins, no email submittal… just click, save to your desktop and enjoy!

How ’bout you… what’s new in your neck of the woods? I’d love to hear…

And onto today!

FIRST: Be alert to a morning GEMALERT from me – could be PLR!

(note – if you’re not getting the additional GEMALERTs and you want to, opt into ’em at askbling.com/getgemalert ).

NOTE! I run a New Product Solution List that gives 3-4 new updates a day
…. please sign up at
askbling.com/4alert
to get these in real time. Thanks!

=======================

AND!! Please visit askbling.com/whitelist and whitelist btl@barbaraling.com – this will ensure you always get these morning goodies. Thanks!

=======================

And here we go!

Today’s goodness includes the following!